Life without PARENTS
OK!
The title chosen is a bit out of ledge. What made me write this is a question one might be thinking.
The title chosen is a bit out of ledge. What made me write this is a question one might be thinking.
So.
an answer in one word..
an answer in one word..
PG
OR HOSTEL STUDENT'S LIFE - life without parents’ protection, family question
answering and constant poking by siblings.
Today,
most probably students after passing 12th, after graduation, or after post
graduation, are coming out from their hometown and far away from their families
for further studies or for job placements, for proper facilities for their
studies, proper guidance related to their future prospectus, will get growth
and exposure. No one will be there for their care, security, and safety because
it is not possible in everyone's case that they have their relatives at places
where they are migrating. They have to lead their life alone without
parents ,have to do struggle and have to fight with the loneliness.
WHY
PG OR HOSTEL is believed to be a turning point in students’ life?
By
watching movies and soaps ,today's youth create an imaginary picture of pg and
hostel life that pg and hostel is the place where only "MASTI AND
MASTI CHAARO AUR", "PARTIES KARENGE". We party animals think
that they are going far from their parents ...YEAH! YEAH! WOW!!!!!! - No
restrictions, no obligations, no question and answer session after coming late
at home.
The only thing they will get- FREEDOM.
RESTRICTIONS AND KBC SESSION used to irritate kids and they treat home as a PRISON and they all are the PRISONERS.
Just one line they scream in a room-
"BHAAG CHALO YAHA SE".
They want to do parties with friends, hangouts with friends, night outs with friends, want to do by which they get KICK in their life. But when parents restrict them and do stop them for some reasons, we think parents are bounding us in a limits and boundaries.
The only thing they will get- FREEDOM.
RESTRICTIONS AND KBC SESSION used to irritate kids and they treat home as a PRISON and they all are the PRISONERS.
Just one line they scream in a room-
"BHAAG CHALO YAHA SE".
They want to do parties with friends, hangouts with friends, night outs with friends, want to do by which they get KICK in their life. But when parents restrict them and do stop them for some reasons, we think parents are bounding us in a limits and boundaries.
THINKING-
WHY THEY ARE STOPPING US? WHAT ARE THEIR PROBLEMS? WHY THEY DON'T ALLOW ME TO ATTEND NIGHT PARTY AND ENJOY NIGHT LIFE?
You know what, I was wrong and right..I AM A BIG GIRL/BOY NOW.
but we will always a kid for our parents who learn how to walk by holding their fingers.
During watching television and suddenly our brother or sister snatch the remote from our hands and will change the T.v channel. After that TOM AND JERRY like fighting force us to think...OKAY I m here for some time ,will go from here , then no sister or brother for fights. No exchange of outfits, NO sharing of sweets and chocolates.
BUT after getting into pg or hostel, where no restrictions, no time limits, no tom and jerry like fights, no rules and regulations, rock and roll type of life. They come to know about reality that when they have to spend monthly pocket money on their expenses for which their parents never stopped. MONEY RESTRICTS THEM TO DO FUN. After getting bored because of tasteless food of pg or hostel, they remember the taste of mum's food. They will feel Where are their siblings? Whom they will do fight? With whom they will share their secrets and experience
WHY THEY ARE STOPPING US? WHAT ARE THEIR PROBLEMS? WHY THEY DON'T ALLOW ME TO ATTEND NIGHT PARTY AND ENJOY NIGHT LIFE?
You know what, I was wrong and right..I AM A BIG GIRL/BOY NOW.
but we will always a kid for our parents who learn how to walk by holding their fingers.
During watching television and suddenly our brother or sister snatch the remote from our hands and will change the T.v channel. After that TOM AND JERRY like fighting force us to think...OKAY I m here for some time ,will go from here , then no sister or brother for fights. No exchange of outfits, NO sharing of sweets and chocolates.
BUT after getting into pg or hostel, where no restrictions, no time limits, no tom and jerry like fights, no rules and regulations, rock and roll type of life. They come to know about reality that when they have to spend monthly pocket money on their expenses for which their parents never stopped. MONEY RESTRICTS THEM TO DO FUN. After getting bored because of tasteless food of pg or hostel, they remember the taste of mum's food. They will feel Where are their siblings? Whom they will do fight? With whom they will share their secrets and experience
PG life or Hostel life will give you new begging of life
independently with new family and friends ( PG mates),with new caretaker (
landlord of pg ). You will become an independent and responsible person.
We learn how to manage expenses with the limited pocket money, how to take care
of ourselves, how to fight with the loneliness because siblings are not here to
entertain you with their idiotic activities, how to live life happily and keep
smiling without tensions and stress.
We learn how to face problems of life alone. Fight with the problematic circumstances, and hot can we get out from them by many solutions and again come back to our future track and achieve goals.
We learn how to face problems of life alone. Fight with the problematic circumstances, and hot can we get out from them by many solutions and again come back to our future track and achieve goals.
YES. life is difficult to spend without parents without their
restrictions and advises ,without entertaining siblings, without best friends
but leading life as paying guest and as a hosteller ,things make you realize
that parents stopped us because they knew what is wrong and right for us, about
their struggle and sacrifices for us just make us able to reach the heights of
sky ,their everlasting and unconditional love.
At last,
Lines to parents-
NO MATTER WHO OLD I
GROW, I WOULD ALWAYS REMAIN THAT STUPID, LOVING AND SMILING LITTLE KID OF
YOURS.
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